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For a woman, the turn-on is not so much in the sensation of pain as it is in the feeling of helpless submission and vulnerability of
being bent over her partner's lap, the attention being paid to her behind (a primary erotic zone), the feeling of a man's hand
warming her buttocks, and the anticipation of sexual pleasures to come.
For a man, the arousing aspect of spanking is the feeling of control and power over his helpless lover, and the excitement of
playing with her attractive bottom, turning it pink and putting her in the mood for some hot, passionate sex.
To master the art of erotic spanking, it is important to understand the following six principles:
1. The bottom is a prime erogenous zone; however, unlike other zones such as the breasts and back of the neck, the sexual arousal
nerves in the bottom are buried in a layer of fat and require harder stimulation -- like in spanking -- to trigger them;
2. The physiological process of sexual arousal demands that before orgasm can occur, blood must be collected and kept in the
genitals and nearby areas. Spanking creates just such a physiological response, as the stinging of the skin causes blood to collect
in the bottom (and simultaneously in the nearby genitals), thus accomplishing "mechanically" what caresses and kisses do
3. A properly done spanking, such as over the knee or with a cushion or other support propping up the woman's bottom, causes
the bottom to squirm from the sting, simultaneously resulting in her rubbing her clitoris on the supporting knee, pillow, etc.
4. The feeling of "surrender" or submission is an important part of a woman's sexual response, as many women need to give up
control and give themselves "permission" to feel sexual. Spanking incites and reinforces such feelings;
The last two spanking principles, and some specific tips to make it really hot... Next Page >>
Master The Art Of Erotic Spanking
Yes, spanking can be sexy, and a majority of women have fantasies about being spanked.
Most men, too, find spanking a woman to be a strong sexual turn-on.
But sexual spanking is not the same as the punishment spanking we may have experienced as